Awareness and Relationship Issues

Awareness and Relationship Issues

I would do anything to change my pain! Maybe you have thought this too. The challenge, of course, lies in the fact that to change our pain, we need to make lifestyle changes. Most of us want to change our pain status…without any significant investments of time or...
The Bar and Back

The Bar and Back

Self-pity overwhelmed my mind as I walked a quarter mile to the Brew’s Tavern. Yes, I could walk. Praise God for that. But a quarter mile was nothing to my athletic college friends. Forging a new identity, apart from the “Miracle Girl” label, which was stuck on me in...
From Shutdown to Stillness

From Shutdown to Stillness

I appreciate your kind responses to my “War-Torn Women” Visio Divina exercise. So many of us can relate on different levels to the need to lament. In this next post, I use the same images to help illustrate what God has taught me about the profound beauty of learning...
Outcome Independent

Outcome Independent

Well, I guess I’m outcome independent now. Not sure how I feel about that. In his book, The Way Out, Alan Gordon promotes the ideal of becoming outcome independent (not emotionally attached to any specific outcome) in our attitude toward our pain. In the process of...
The Body Jacket

The Body Jacket

Former addicts understand how to celebrate small victories. People in physical rehabilitation understand how a movement so small and natural to some can represent weeks of hard and painful work when recovering from major injuries. Today’s story is about a very small...