From Shutdown to Stillness

From Shutdown to Stillness

I appreciate your kind responses to my “War-Torn Women” Visio Divina exercise. So many of us can relate on different levels to the need to lament. In this next post, I use the same images to help illustrate what God has taught me about the profound beauty of learning...
War-Torn Women

War-Torn Women

As I painted the following image, I understood a definite progression of form and thought. So often I have lamented for women around the world who have never been safe and have not had the chance to give their children a secure upbringing. My heart aches for those...
Outcome Independent

Outcome Independent

Well, I guess I’m outcome independent now. Not sure how I feel about that. In his book, The Way Out, Alan Gordon promotes the ideal of becoming outcome independent (not emotionally attached to any specific outcome) in our attitude toward our pain. In the process of...
4. Learning to Feel – Anticipation

4. Learning to Feel – Anticipation

Note: These “Learning to Feel” blog entries are copied here from chapter 5 of my book, New in the Middle. I’ve included them here because they share the main defining moments in my life. Instead of a chronological timeline, I tell my stories in a new way—from the...
3. Learning to Feel – Pain

3. Learning to Feel – Pain

Note: These “Learning to Feel” blog entries are copied here from chapter 5 of my book, New in the Middle. I’ve included them here because they share the main defining moments in my life. Instead of a chronological timeline, I tell my stories in a new way—from the...
2. Learning to Feel – Love

2. Learning to Feel – Love

Note: These “Learning to Feel” blog entries are copied here from chapter 5 of my book, New in the Middle. I’ve included them here because they share the main defining moments in my life. Instead of a chronological timeline, I tell my stories in a new way—from the...